child sex abuse

Bachpan da waila vee bara ajeeb aah. Har shay wadhi tay chungi lag dee aah.

Na koi fikar na koi masla. Aseen jidoon chotay see school ghar day lagay hunda 

See. Hun zamana buht badal ghia. Likhan wastay kaanay diyaan kalmaan chakoo nal gharniya. Sheeshay dee dawaat huni tay auday wich ikk puri siyai dee paowni. Lakar dee bani hoi takhti tay oh kalam tay siyai nal likh kay ghar da kum kerna. School aah kay master ji nu takhti dakhoni. Ghar jaa kay takhti nu paani naal doh kay gachee mal daini.

Jidoon takhti nay suk jana tay aglay din school da kum autay likh daina. Jehrian siyai diyaan purian hundian see ohnu “chirag rushnai” day naa naal vick dee see. Ik hor vee siyai hundi see jehda naa  “muslim rushnai” hunda see. Jehri siyai nay takhti yaan phatty tay chamak dar likhna oh chungi hundi see. Jay kisay munday kol siyai nehn hundi see ohnay aik doojay koloon siyai mungni jehno “dohbay” kehnday see. Jehno dohbay dainay yaa lainay oh ikk dojay daa bara muhkoor hunda see.  Schoolan ch ik hor sha jehri hondi seeohno “slate” kehnday see. Slate tay “slati” naal likhiya jaanda see. Jay pher likh na huway tay thora jeha autay thok kay hath nal mata daina tay pher hor kuch likhna. Parhai aini mehngi nehn hondi see. Her kissay da bachaa school ch jaa sakda see.

Eh oh zamana jeedoon ayub khan dee taraki da buht rowla see. Audoon yaan ohtoon pehloon habib jalib nay aik nazim vee likhi jehday pehlay Akhar see “bees rupai man atta  Us per bee hai sanata” . Zamana pher vee chunga see na ainiyan chorian yaan daakay see tay na eh koi kataal hunday see.

Bacha pahwaan koi vee howay insaan da yaan jaanwar da. Her kissay nu piyara tay chunga lag da ah. Eh chunga lagan toon kai lok bachyan nu mangan wastay istmal kerday ah. Kai lok eh bachyaan nu apni howas da shkar banau day ah. Eh bachpan da waila jehday ch wadiyaan da adab kerna painda. Agar kisay bachay naal koi pehra kum karay tay oh dojian nu dasan toon darda ya sharmao da ah.

Hon jehri kahani main likhan lagan oh Toba tek singh  (city in Pakistan) dee aah.Meray naal aidaan dee gal sub toon pehlay ik na janan walay bodhay aadmi (stranger) jehra toba day station tay quli hunda see keeti. Saray qulian chon sab toon wadah see omar ch. Os zamanay ch basaan jaldi band ho jaandian see. Lahore toon “Rail car” na dee gadi buht late tobay toon lang dee see.Mera wadha phai Lahore toon aah rehya see. Main cycle lay kay ohnu station tay lain ghia. Hajay rail car day aunay ch time see tay main agay jaa kay bench tay beth ghia.

Tobay dee abadi vee ehni nehn hundi see . Lok aik dujay nu jaan day see. Jedoon main bench tay betha tay oh bodha quli meray kool aa kay baith ghia. Hal chal puchia tay kehn laga mera wada phai kithay aa. Oh nai aiya? Main ohnu puchiya kiyon kih gal aa? Kehn laga aseen aik dujay dee lay day lai dee ah. Menu audoon tay gal samaj ch naa ai pher hon jedoon sooch da aan tay patta lag da aa keh oh bodha aadmi menu apni howas wastay aiya see.

Oh aina jaandar neh see yaan ziyadti kern toon dar ghia. Muslimaan mulkaan yaan India ch eh bachyaan naal jinsi ziyadti da koi tasawar eh nehn. Hajay tak koi aisa tasawar eh nehn keh koi bachyaan nu es ziyadti toon bachaya jaway. Lakhaan day hasaab nal har rose bachay eh zulm da shkaar honday ah. Ziyada cases dee na koi report hondi aah. Yaan bachay khamosh rehnday ah sharam yaan dar dee wajah toon. Lakhaan bachayaan nu apni jinsi howas da shkaar banaun walian dee aksariat reshtay dar honday ah i.e. Brothers sisters, uncles cousins and other relatives.

Halaat aisay paidah keetay gaiy ah keh koi eh gal sonan wastay tiar eh nehn keh aidaan da vee koi masla asian yaan Pakistani bachiyaan nu pesh hega ah. Lokaan nu aina keh brain wash ker daita gia ah keh es topic tay lok koi gal sonan wastay tiar nehn. Haqeeqat eh ah keh aksar lok bachpan day vich kisay na kisay sorat ch kisay dee jinsi howas da shkar hunday ah.

Tobay ch ik masjid hundi see jehda naa “faroozi masjid” hunda see. Eh masjad ch ik hafiz rahmat naami maulvi hunda see. Eh maulvi toon main quran perhya. Masjid day naal eh maulvi wastay ik chota jeya makaan see. Maulvi kool jidoon perhn jaana tay ohnay perhaunday hoi kadeen bagal ch aungli daini tay kadeen bachyaan day kun ch aungli phairni.  Sanu kuch bachyaan nu shak pai ghai keh maulvi launday baz haga. Ek din “hassan “ naami bacha maulvi day quarter toon nikliya tay buht preyshaan tay ghabriaya hoya see. Aseen kuch bachyaan nay hassan nu puchya andher audhay naal ki hoya. Hassan nay kuch nehn dasya. Sharam dee wajah naal yaan dar day naal.

Pakistan diyaan gadian (trains) ch buht rush hunda see. Hajjay vee aiaan ah.  Ik vari main

Faisalabad jan wastay gudi tay bari tago dau nal charia. Gudi ch buht rush see. Banday tay banda charya hoya see. Thori dair baad aidaa lagia gidaan kisay hath meri pashaab vali jagha tay lag rehya ah. Main sochya rush ziyada ah tay ho sakda waisay kissay da hath lag rehya huway. Holy holy eh hath nay meray sand nu phar liya. Thori thori harkat

kern lag pia. Jidoon menu pori tsuli ho ghai tay main oh jaga toon serak ghia.

Toba tek singh ch saday ghar day lagay ik huti hundi see. Saday toon ik ghar chad kay. Ramzaan da meehna see tay main rooza rakhya hoya see. Shaam da waila see tay main oh huti tay ghia. Oh huti wala barfi vee baich da hunda see. Oh huti walay nay du chtang burfi takri naal tool kay menu ditti. Main ohnu kehya main rooza rekhya aah. Main neh kha sak da. Pher ohnay kehya ohnay pagaania ch gas bherni aah toon meray naal ah. Oh huti walay nay ik kamra naal day ghar da liya hua see. Oh kamray ch ohnay gas da cylinder rekhya huya see. Main ohday naal oh kamray ch chaliya ghia. Har bachay dee adat yaan koshish hundi ah oh nawaiyan toon nawaiyan galan sekhay. Menu koi ziyada shok hunda see. Oh kamray ch jaa kay ohnay paganiyaan ch hawa perni shroh kiti. Main baray shok naal dekh rehya see tay ohday koloon puch rehya see gas phern da. Thori dair baad paganiyaan nu chud kay ohnay menu pher liya. Ohnay apni loli jehri buht sakht see meray naal launi shroh ker ditti. Pher oh thora jehya wadhya tay ohnay loli meriyaan lataan ch daini shorooh ker ditti. Qudarati toor tay har bacha pawain koi vee howay eh cheese zaroor ah ke ohnu khatray da patta lag jaanda ah. Jiddon ohnay apni sakht loli meriyaan tangaan ch phairni shruh kitti tay main ohtoon chut kay kamray toon bahr ah ghia.

Saday eh gawandi da ik phai hunda see. Jehday tin bachay see. Do munday tay ik kuri. Jehray meri omar day see. Bachyaan dee maan mer ghai see. Eh sada gowandi chara see tay apnay phai naal rehnda see tay ghar dee baithak ch huti banai hoi see. Eh gowandi di ik huti hor ve see. Eh huti toba tek singh day government high school ch hundi see. Eh school muhala Islam pura  naal hunda see. Dosaray passay jhang Road see.Teesray passay hospital. Shaam nu aseen bachyan nay akhtay khilaana. Guli danda , kaudian, kabadi, buntay (marbles, small glass balls), chtapoo, rasi tapna tay lukna lubna ( hide and seek.) . Kadeen eh gawandi day patijian nay ohday wastay school ch roti lay kay jaani.

Kai vari main vee ohna day naal ghia. Eh gawandi nay apnay patijian khalan ch laa daina.

Menu ik muchee daini (sweet ). Meray dhit (belly) tay hath phairna tay kehna balay balay bara wada dhit ah. Kih khada see. Eh keh kay meray pajamay da naala khol daina. Pher apni loli nu thuk laa kay meri back dee mori ch pawn dee koshish kerni. Main thoriyaan salaam da see tay chota see. Ohnay shukr ah keh apni loli meray ander na pai. Mernu aina yaad ah keh jidoon vee ohnay meray naal eh kuch kerna tay mera peecha (back) gilli (wet) lugni. Eh ohday thuk naal hundi see? Yaan oh apnay aap nu discharge kar da see.

Eh meray naal kai dafa hoya

Bachay pawaan European hown yaan asian and African eh saray aisay lokaan day waishiana zulm da shkar hunday ah. Firaq sirf ehna ah European mulkaan ch pher vee kuch bachyaan nu bachaya jaanda ah. Pher asian yaan African mulakaan ch everything is still hidden. If any incident of child sexual abuse comes to surface then community elders or responsible people try to hide and bury as nothing happened. Child sexual abuse is wide spread in Pakistan Afghanistan Iran  turkey India asian African and arab countries.

It has nothing to do with religion or creed. If you are victim of child sexual abuse try to stop it and report it. There is no shame to report it or tell to your elders. Please tell it as soon as it happened and save other children